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Related: HOW do I start enjoying receiving more? I get so focused on trying to look good for my partner (read: not bad) that I can’t even get out of my head long enough to *feel* good
I’m pretty insecure so being the receiver in sex is HARD for me. My partner is also a big pillow princess and pretty much only likes receiving. Anytime they do anything to me sexually they find some way to get out of it and I’ve been feeling undesirable
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Anonymous 1w

until you get a better partner that’s just not possible tbh. they sound like a real piece of shit.

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Anonymous 1w

You should ask your partner to praise you and tell you how you look good. That helped me a lot in the same situation. You can also try positions where your face isn’t visible if that’s what bothers you

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Anonymous 1w

ime you kinda just have to turn your brain off and let yourself feel the pleasure get out of your head and the rest will come

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Anonymous 1w

I would also agree to get a different partner, there’s other ways to say no to something with out making the other person feel like shit but I think just focusing on your body and physical sensation helps ground you during sex you can also always use your partner for this I.e. praise, touching, soft touching ect you need a loving partner who’s willing to pace themselves for you <3

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Anonymous 1w

Find what you like on your own- start there. Trust your partner and yourself. They find you more attractive than you probably think. Out of your head and into the sheets 🤍🙌🏻 you got this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you must have missed the comment on their other post that their partner mimed vomiting before going down on them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I definitely missed that- RUN

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Wait I just read the other post please break up with them

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