Anonymous #1 1d

Yes I’d love to have bars and events specifically for sapphic women. And I mean trans men are men and sometimes I want to just be around women yk

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Anonymous OP 1d

Well some trans men aren’t binary? Do you mean events specifically for lesbian women? There’s nonbinary lesbians too

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Anonymous #1 1d

Nonbinary is fine ? But how are you a man but also not bianary I’m confused

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Anonymous OP 1d

It’s easier for me to call myself a trans man while being not super binary because it explains my lived experience better

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Anonymous #1 1d

I get that! But I think that it’s ok SOMETIMES not all the time but sometimes to have events and spaces for people who identify as women And then also sometimes nonbinary people as well but women do often deal with like basically since we are the minority we are expected to take on other minorities. It’s ok to have stuff just for the girls sometimes that’s all I’m saying

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Anonymous OP 1d

But then make a women’s space. Not lesbian. Because not all lesbians are women

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Anonymous #1 1d

All lesbians are women or nonbinary/fluid Also they literally never said it was for lesbians they said just wlw women

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Anonymous #2 1d

You do know fluid includes being a man right. I need you to know that

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Anonymous #2 1d

There are genderfluid and trans men lesbians as well.

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Anonymous #3 22h

Why would you call yourself a lesbian if you are a trans man….

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Anonymous OP 22h

Trans men are men and therefore I am not interested in dating them as a lesbian

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Anonymous #3 22h

That’s totally fine, and when they are identifying as men I just want to have spaces for wlw. Why is that so fucking problematic bro I don’t understand why we can’t just get spaces for women like jfc

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Anonymous #1 22h

Literally everyone knows that😭

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Anonymous OP 22h

Cool, there are still trans men who are lesbians and nothing you say or think will change that.

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Anonymous #3 21h

Dude if you are a male u aren’t a lesbian what are you talking about this is either transphobic or wildly sexist and denying what being a lesbian is

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Anonymous #2 21h

Male man whatever yk what I mean

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Anonymous #2 21h

So people who are male can’t be lesbians?

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Anonymous #1 21h

NO😭😭😭😭like men can’t be lesbian because lesbian is women who are attracted to WOMEN

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Anonymous #2 21h

But nonbinary people can be lesbians

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Anonymous #2 21h

It’s neither. There are trans men who have community ties that will never be undone or replaced and who still resonate with being lesbian. They’re valid as both men and lesbians, even if you don’t understand it.

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Anonymous #1 21h

NONBIANRY PEOPLE ARENT MEN 😭😭 THEY ARE NONBINARY

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Anonymous #2 21h

YOU JUST SAID LESBIANS ARE ONLY WOMEN

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Anonymous #3 21h

No. I’m sorry but if you identify as a man you are NOT a lesbian because lesbians are not attracted to men!! This is why people don’t believe lesbians when they say that they don’t like men. This is ridiculous, genuinely.

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Anonymous #2 21h

Non-cis men loving non-cis men who identify with the label “lesbian” are lesbians. That’s a better approach to it. Plenty of lesbians are not women.

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Anonymous #1 21h

NO I DIDNT DINGBAT. LISTEN

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Anonymous #3 21h

Ok right I’m not falling for this fucking rage bait anymore. I can’t stand people who won’t just leave lesbians the fuck alone. Are you a lesbian?

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Anonymous #2 21h

Why are you lying 💀

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Anonymous #2 21h

It’s not rage bait, it’s basic decency and understanding of the complexities of the lesbian community. If you actually engaged with lesbians and the broader community, ESPECIALLY offline, you’d know this stuff.

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Anonymous #2 21h

Trans men lesbians exist whether you want them to or not. The only ridiculous comments are yours, denying an entire history.

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Anonymous #3 21h

I don’t need to “engage” w them I AM ONE

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Anonymous #2 21h

And you clearly know nothing about your own community because you don’t engage with it. Being lesbian doesn’t mean you’re capital L Lesbian, involved in the community. You should fix that.

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Anonymous #2 17h

Breathe bby… if lesbian A is dating butch B who transitions to become a man is lesbian A not a lesbian anymore?

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Anonymous #5 9h

Bean soup theory bro

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Anonymous #2 8h

if lesbians aren't attracted to men (your words) and a transman isn't attracted to men, then he can identify as a lesbian. labels are tools, not jail cells.

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