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dating a man who watches p😛rn, but thinks queer media is too sexual and doesn’t enjoy it? he refuses to watch and is disdainful of brokeback mountain, heated rivalry (two of my faves) and doesn’t want to watch the new leviticus movie. feeling: confused.
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Anonymous 1d

🚩🚩🚩

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Anonymous 23h

Yeah noooooo… he’s just homophobic. Dump his dumb ass

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Anonymous 20h

Duuuuump now. Yesterday, even. Also, Heated Rivalry had a beautiful story in it and I’m so sick of people only seeing it as sex…

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Anonymous 20h

thought this was a hypothetical bc itd be crazy to actually be dating him thru this

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Anonymous 21h

you need to dump him immediately 🚩

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Anonymous 22h

why are you dating him lol

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Anonymous 18h

Girl I’m sorry. I totally get the instinct to rationalize but being queer is part of who are and his homophobia will only become more apparent. If he just didn’t want to watch that’s one thing but the distain is another. He needs to go

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Anonymous 12h

Leviticus is literally a horror movie💀 just like #2 said he obviously just doesn’t like it because it’s a piece of queer media and there are two boys kissing

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Anonymous 6h

Your first mistake was dating a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

me trying to rationalize but i don’t get it!! he watches all kinds of anime regardless of whether they’re super sexualized, shows SA, and can discern a message beyond that, but when it comes to queer shows he says “it’s not for him”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Because it’s gay. He’s homophobic (and based on that extra information, probably misogynist)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

oh shit he just sound's homophobic and problematic af i'd say dump his ass😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20h

Hopefully it becomes past tense…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

call his hypocrisy out please

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1h

Gay man here. Yeah… you’re kinda right

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1h

let’s be clear guys, this is all new information to me. i think he has hidden his true reasons intentionally, and it has taken me a while to realize how serious he is about it. he played off the heated rivalry thing as not wanting to watch “smut” and compared it to 50 shades and i was like whatever he’s not into romance, then Brokeback mountain i started to get confused because yes it’s sexual but it’s not smut, it’s a tragic (pivotal, award winning) love story

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

and with leviticus, it was this knee jerk reaction i wasn’t expecting of “i don’t enjoy queer media, especially not erotica and sexual interactions as a “main component”” that made me full stop. because that’s straight up not what that movie is about. as someone who went to a very catholic high school and had a friend ACTUALLY exorcised over coming out, it’s a very interesting movie concept, and set with high schoolers so not even very sexual??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

yeah idk, i’ve never been with someone who had these views before and its clear to me now that this was being obscured from me because he knows MY views.

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