Anonymous #1 19h

I mean yeah to each their own.

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Anonymous OP 19h

well ofc it's their choice to not go to therapy but then it's also the partners choice to break up cause when your problems are so big that they affect others and you refuse to accept help then you have to live with the consequences eventually...

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Anonymous #1 19h

couldn't have said it better myself

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Anonymous #1 19h

Well yeah but I just found it weird that they were demonizing op. But like I just think the break up was mutual.

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it’s actually wild that you’re armchair diagnosing someone with a personality disorder based on a couple anonymous posts lmfao. and i’m supposed to believe y’all are the people that take mental health seriously.

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Anonymous #4 19h

Of post And people were saying that they hope the person get held involuntarily and that they can see why they broke up. And being very aggressive. I was confused on why not wanting to go to therapy is a bad thing cause well I don’t want to either.

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Anonymous OP 19h

Example

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Anonymous OP 18h

yep saw the original but i probably blocked/got blocked by the person making aggressive comments. it just using “you should be in therapy” etc as a “socially acceptable” put down and/or threat, especially saying that someone should be involuntarily hospitalized. as someone with psychiatric trauma, i’ve tried therapy, it made all of my issues worse. it’s also not easy to find a *good* therapist. people allow for zero nuance in these conversations.

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Anonymous OP 18h

huh I think if your partner appears to have anger issues then it's perfectly fair to ask them to go to therapy, but it's still their decision on if they ultimately want to go. also trying to diagnose them is super fucking weird

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