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“pansexual lesbian” why is it so hard for the community to understand that if you like men… YOURE NOT LESBIAN!!
26 upvotes, 40 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "“pansexual lesbian” why is it so hard for the community to understand that if you like men… YOURE NOT LESBIAN!!"
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Anonymous 19h

what’re you a cop? mind your own damn business

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Anonymous 19h

Could they have meant pansexual homoromantic?

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Anonymous 20h

i promise it’s not hard to understand that you can’t be pan and a lesbian. that’s not how that works. you can certainly be pan and sapphic, but definitely not a lesbian 😀

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Anonymous 19h

Sybau.

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Anonymous 18h

anyways shoutout to that transmasc femme pansexual lesbian, i hope they continue to have fun

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Anonymous 20h

This is clearly bait

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Anonymous 16h

The most levelheaded take tbh. Thanks for affirming trans men, OP

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Anonymous 20h

and i’m all for trans masc and nonbinary people being lesbians because… THEYRE NOT MEN!!! like why can’t people understand the whole point of being lesbian is that you don’t like men

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Anonymous 19h

no way people are arguing that this can be true 😭 you can’t be pansexual and lesbian at the same time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Agreed.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

So trans men can’t identify as lesbians?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Would it matter if they did? I don’t think OP cares 1 way or the other

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

this is 100% what they meant, I thought it was obvious but ig lots of people don’t know about the split attraction model

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

obviously trans men aren’t lesbians cuz they’re men 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Sybau

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

yes actually cuz this community has completely lost the plot cuz the whole point of being a lesbian is that you’re not a man and you’re not attracted to men

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

pansexual and lesbian are completely contradictory btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

R u a lesbian by chance

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

No one on this thread is arguing that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

multiple people have told you about the split attraction model/them being a homoromantic pansexual, you just want smth to be mad at 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19h

lesbian means homosexual, not homoromantic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

literally top comment is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Nah, they’re cop sexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

no one’s arguing that you can be homosexual and pansexual but you can certainly be homoromantic and pansexual, but homoromantic is clunky so people say they’re a pansexual lesbian. they’re obviously not just “lesbian” so they’re not even invading your label or whatever. this is a non-issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

when someone says they’re a lesbian do you assume they don’t like women romantically

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

No they are not they are saying to mind your business cuz we r tired of hearing this instigator bs on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Hey, I have 7 blocked and I’ve only blocked people who use conservative dogwhistles, so… make of that what you will

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

after that first comment they ARE defending it 😭 are you illiterate??

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

So did you notice 5 only commented once

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18h

Sounds like they’re living their best life!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

oh no god forbid someones desires and they way they describe themself doesn’t fit neatly into my personal conception of what gender in sexuality is supposed to be someone call the military!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

Man this way of thinking sounds very familiar… almost like how homophobes think…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

I don’t understand why you’re getting downvoted for affirming trans men…it’s like people don’t know what to argue about

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 17h

literally I just don’t get it at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 17h

they’re getting downvoted for policing other peoples identities and how they describe themselves. it’s that simple, it’s not “affirming” to bitch and moan and complain about how someone else’s identity doesn’t make sense to you personally so they’re not allowed to feel that way or describe themself that way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 16h

she’s not affirming trans men, how tf is it affirming to disrespect and target people who VOLUNTARILY identify as trans guy lesbians 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 15h

not all trans mascs are trans men and vice versa tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12h

The OP is not “affirming trans men”. They’re telling trans men what we can and cannot identify as. Nobody is telling us that we have to be lesbians, some trans men just use the label for THEMSELVES because it best describes their identities and lived experiences. Who are you to police what people personally identify themselves as?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

Fucking PREACH

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6h

i love you btw

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