
no one’s arguing that you can be homosexual and pansexual but you can certainly be homoromantic and pansexual, but homoromantic is clunky so people say they’re a pansexual lesbian. they’re obviously not just “lesbian” so they’re not even invading your label or whatever. this is a non-issue.
they’re getting downvoted for policing other peoples identities and how they describe themselves. it’s that simple, it’s not “affirming” to bitch and moan and complain about how someone else’s identity doesn’t make sense to you personally so they’re not allowed to feel that way or describe themself that way.
The OP is not “affirming trans men”. They’re telling trans men what we can and cannot identify as. Nobody is telling us that we have to be lesbians, some trans men just use the label for THEMSELVES because it best describes their identities and lived experiences. Who are you to police what people personally identify themselves as?