so you can be asexual and still want/enjoy sex! asexuality is about whether you experience sexual attraction to people so for me hearing others talk about the physical features that turn them on was like the biggest sign of my asexuality, bc no part of me wants to like lick someone yk it's harder for me to say how I knew I was aromantic, I guess it's just bc I've never experienced a crush or romantic love and I can just sort of tell I never will