if you see someone say “i’m x label and feel
y way” and you try and “correct” them and say “actually you’re z” that’s queerphobic as hell and you need to take a step back and reevaluate. they are the only person who gets to decide how they label themself.
I feel like this about the pan person’s post where everyone was like “erm acthually you’re not pan bc you have a dating perference 🤓☝️☝️” like bros hush