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To gay men, when y'all are in a relationship do you take turns being the bottom or are you like already in assigned seating if you know what I mean
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Anonymous 17w

Depends on the dynamic and comfort! In my experience it’s never really like a discussed thing, you just kinda naturally develop it

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Anonymous 17w

This depends entirely on the people and would be different for each couple, some people are exclusively tops, some are exclusively bottoms, and some are vers

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Anonymous 17w

I’m in assigned seating. I’m a total bottom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Thank you🙇 I've always been curious about how that works

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