LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I’ve literally never understood this, why are we so quick to shame closeted men instead of addressing why they’re afraid to come out?(unsafe environments, pressure from family/friends/hell society as a whole)

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LGBTQIA+ 7w

I’ve literally never understood this, why are we so quick to shame closeted men instead of addressing why they’re afraid to come out?(unsafe environments, pressure from family/friends/hell society as a whole)

LGBTQIA+ 7w

Dl men are dangerous to out gay men but also straight women

Anonymous 7w

cos there’s a difference between people who don’t wanna be out and dl men who actively put others at risk. a lot of dl men are in straight relationships and actively cheating and then don’t get tested so they put all of their sexual partners at risk

Anonymous 7w

I dated someone who was closeted and I would never do it again. I hated feeling like I was a dirty secret. He was ashamed of even being seen in public around me because I was openly gay. My curent boyfriend is proud to be with me and will always defend me if someone has a problem with it. Being closeted and single is fine, but dragging another person down with your insecurity is not.

Anonymous

#2 7w

I get what you’re saying but you and everyone with this attitude needs to understand that not. All. Dl. People. Are. Like. This.

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Anonymous

#2 7w

Not to mention that there are people that aren’t closeted that do this exact same behavior, and yet people only seem to care when closeted men do it,

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Anonymous

OP 7w

there. is. a. difference. between. closeted. and. dl.

Anonymous

#2 7w

They clearly overlap though,

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