Anonymous #2 5d

I’m not lesbian though and I’m looking for a term specific for me giving penetration, sex can mean anything

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Anonymous OP 5d

it's just sex. there's no fancy word. it's just called having sex. ur just topping.

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Anonymous #1 5d

So would the phrase be “strapping her” or would that get confused with bondage, I don’t want people thinking I want to strap them down haha

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Anonymous OP 5d

yeah that’s what i see people use, tie is usually what people use when talking about bondage

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Anonymous #2 5d

But you could still top without using a toy or it could refer to fingering etc, that’s why I’m looking for a more specific term so people don’t think I’m referring to the other stuff

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Anonymous OP 5d

Like I could peg a guy and that would still be sex, but if I just said I was going to fuck a guy or have sex with a guy they’d just assume I’m receiving or something, it’s not specific to the action

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Anonymous #1 5d

Ohh okay that makes sense, thanks

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Anonymous OP 5d

there isn't a specific word for everything that's widely accepted everywhere. you can use whatever word u want, genuinely, but the action you're doing doesn't have a widely known term that everyone is going to know like that

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Anonymous #2 5d

Alright I was just wondering since strap ons are very popular in the f-f scene so I thought maybe there would be a common term for it, seems it’s just strapping

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Anonymous OP 5d

like i said, specific terms like that are not very widely known or used. it really just depends if the others in your area knows the word bc a lot don't. i'm not trying to be argumentative, btw, im js autistic and trying to say if anyone misunderstands what you mean when u use smth like "strapping" it might js be bc theyve never heard it before, ykwim?

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