admitted to my coworkers that i’m a lesbian and the immediate reception was
“really? i always saw you as more an independent woman. i don’t know that i could see you with anybody ur always really quiet whenever we talk about our relationships.”
cute.
it just kind of bothers me when people don’t receive me as a lesbian when i tell them. it just makes me sad because i think part of it is because of how little wlw media is represented so they can’t visualize it right away.