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As an asexual how do I figure out if I just like the idea of sex or if I might actually enjoy it even without sexual attraction?
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honest exploration with someone you trust

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I'm asexual and I enjoy sex! the way I figured it out was I started off by knowing I enjoy masturbation. then for my first time with another person I communicated that I would not be the most enthusiastic participant (don't really like touching other people lol) and I said I may back out at any time so idk just go slow and find someone who will respect your boundaries

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