No offense but i think its a reddit issue rather than a broader community one, I’ve been in other subreddits that definitely allowed interesting (borderline bigoted) takes before but a lot of that kind of stuff blows up as discourse but is forgotten in a week, im sure its similar in like toxic facebook groups/other platforms too, hell ive seen toxic takes blow up as discourse on here too, sometimes its jusr the wake up call you need to take a step back and find other forms of community
I'm not on reddit and I have genuinely had a difficulty finding trans spaces that are comfortable with my presence - online and in-person both. Tell me why the trans affinity group at my college started setting up events "just for girls" that was everyone in the group (including enby ppl which like, I hope they were comfortable with that??) except the trans men. Like I hate generalizing & I'm not saying this is a one way thing at all, but a lot of ppl find reasons to exclude others
It was really weird 😭 we're all still friendly with each other, but uhhh very strange? I unfortunately don't hang out much with them anymore. I've seen the same thing happen in other contexts where trans groups "coincidentally" become just trans men or just a-specifically-presenting-type-of-androgynous. I will stick with my general trans spaces but idk why folks feel the need to do that