LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I think most of this stems from people just… not understanding kink? Incest kink does not involve engaging in any actual incest. Kinks like this are beyond the persons control (and often trauma related). They remain purely fantasy or roleplay (not real!!)

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LGBTQIA+ 4w

I think most of this stems from people just… not understanding kink? Incest kink does not involve engaging in any actual incest. Kinks like this are beyond the persons control (and often trauma related). They remain purely fantasy or roleplay (not real!!)

LGBTQIA+ 4w

I don't give a fuck if you're trans or a woman or if you identify as a fucking cockroach, if you Wana fuck your family members, you're not okay. Go touch grass.

Anonymous 4w

It’s definitely weird and I don’t understand it personally but It’s also weird to act like these people who can’t control what kinks they ended up with are monsters. Actual people who commit incest are monsters. People who just have the kink and roleplay shit are not

Anonymous 4w

THANK YOU!!!! i was waiting for someone to say this. a lot of times, when someone goes through sexual trauma, their brain will turn what they experienced into a kink to try to turn something bad into something pleasurable; it can also be a way for the survivor to get control back of what they went through, in a way. so yes, it’s perfectly understandable why someone who is a survivor of intrafamilial CSA/SA would have an incest kink. they’re not disgusting for having that kink; it’s simply (1/2)

Anonymous 4w

I don’t know man, I feel like it’s still fucked up to fantasize about doing something fucked up, that’s like saying “yeah, I fantasize about raping someone and *of course* I would never actually do that, I just really really like thinking about doing it”

Anonymous

#1 4w

a result of what they shouldn’t have had to endure in the first place. all of this is also why survivors of SA tend to have more bdsm related kinks. this doesn’t happen to every survivor of sexual trauma, of course, but it’s common. (2/2)

Anonymous

#2 4w

I agree, but it is also a little different if the potential victims of a non-roleplay situation just like… don’t exist. I don’t have any experience with this whatsoever, but I feel like “I wish you were my sister” is probably far more common than fantasizing about one’s actual siblings. If people are fetishizing the people in their family, that seems much more problematic than fetishizing the general idea of being related for whatever reason

Anonymous

#3 4w

I’m just saying if someone’s search history is full of “my sister is trapped and can’t get away from me so I fucked her” I think that might be a sign of something bad. Like think about why you’re into the things you’re into, maybe try therapy or something

Anonymous

#2 4w

well yeah I see what you mean, but I think that’s more so problematic for the rape part. Therapy and self reflection are usually a good idea, yeah.

Anonymous

#2 4w

I’m a victim of rape. I developed a kink related to that. Despite what you may believe, I have no desire to ever be actually raped again. It’s pure fantasy and occasionally roleplay (with someone I feel very safe with), because the event fucked up my brain and that’s just how I turned out. Therapy hasn’t altered that it’s a kink I have. I imagine it’s similar for those with incest kinks and other trauma aligned kinks