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can we PLEASE ditch the idea that all terfs are lesbians? please and thank you. And don’t even say most are because most lesbians are trans inclusive
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Anonymous 1d

Lowkey if a terf calls her self a lesbian no she isnt cuz wouldnt she love women if she were

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Anonymous 23h

I didn’t even know there was a name for those women. My goodness 😷 most lesbians wouldn’t shit on another lgbtq

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Anonymous 22h

i have never thought to associate lesbians with TERFs actually. thinking of it, when i tried to be on tumblr for a while, i think a lot of TERFs i saw were lesbians, but i kinda took that to be chronically online losers that are bigoted assholes, rather than "oh yeah this person's a TERF, obviously they're a lesbian too"

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Anonymous 23h

TERFs WISH they could be lesbians but their hateful asses could never compare to real lesbians

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Anonymous 22h

What is a terf?

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Anonymous 23h

I’ve literally never heard this stereotype in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23h

I mean there is a real terf problem among lesbians but the idea that they all are is wild cuz like im the only non transfem lesbian ik

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

My ex was on that shit but thats cuz she was actually just a terrible person and thought any boundary was transmisogyny 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 22h

"trans exclusionary radical feminist" - it's someone who thinks all trans women are men (and usually all trans men are women, but they tend to ignore trans men) but call themselves feminists that are standing up for "real women" it's a lot of bioessentiallism that gender=sex and every male/man is a dangerous and gross monster every single time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 22h

there's also "trans inclusive radical feminists" who think trans people are telling the truth (a trans woman is a woman and a trans man is a man) but also believe that all men are dangerous disgusting monsters and all women are inherently innocent and need to seek safety from all men

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

I have never encountered this take in the wild this is so curious from an academic perspective actually. “Trans men are choosing to join the evil side” is not a take I expected to read this morning lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

Anakin skywalker = trans men? 🧐

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

I promise it exists

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

New headcanon unlocked

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

oh yeah it's very bizarre. you can see people more casually believing in it more often ("i don't trust him and think he's dangerous cause he's a man" whenever a trans man is brought up, whether or not they even know if the person passes) but there are die-hard followers of whatever that is too

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

I think the problem is alot of terfs co opt lesbianism: ie “political lesbianism” meaning they are still attracted to men but choose to not date them. Real lesbians do NOT excluse trans people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

oh wait shit you're right i forgot they were doing that shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Even then most cis lesbians ive met are trans inclusive: the problem is it is being associated with lesbians when transphobia is a larger issue in the queer community

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Real!! Like also you arent a feminist if you define womanhood as essentially genitalia hun

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Well its a lot more insidious irl. Its broadly how transmisogyny functions in "progressive" feminist cis circles. There are still instances where its very explicit but more often its micro aggressions

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

straight men are attracted to women but a lot of them don’t love them 😭 says a lot abt TERFs if they’re acting like a bigot cishet to other women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I agree definitely

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