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wlw people, is it normal to be in a 3+ year relationship and think about having sex with other people because you’re concerned abt your gf being your only partner for the rest of your life? asking bc my gf said this
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Anonymous 15w

NO NOT NORMAL. They're unsatisfied with something in the relationship if they're worried about missing out on other experiences or never having been with other people. My ex gf was like this too and held a lot of resentment towards me because she felt trapped/stuck with me

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Anonymous 15w

It somewhat reads as a “I can date women but I would never marry one” that SOME queer women pull but maybe they’re just wanting to explore nonmonogamous options either way I would talk to your gf about it and ask for clarification

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Anonymous 14w

I think that it could also just be some issues with extremely long term commitment and letting go of her promiscuous era

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