LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I hate when people try to use the spilt attraction model to defend crossing boundaries. Like if someone says they are looking for a long term relationship with a woman, maybe don’t lead her on if you only want to use her for sex. Communicate your wants

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LGBTQIA+ 7w

I hate when people try to use the spilt attraction model to defend crossing boundaries. Like if someone says they are looking for a long term relationship with a woman, maybe don’t lead her on if you only want to use her for sex. Communicate your wants

Anonymous 7w

Yeah I hate how many grown adults don’t understand this basic concept. It makes me question if they’ve ever had (healthy) long term friendships before, because this kind of behavior doesn’t just start out of the blue

Anonymous 7w

And those assholes ruin it for people who use the split attraction model in good faith, which further divides the community as we try to stay wary of legit chasers and fetishizers

Anonymous

#2 7w

Oh I don’t disagree and that’s why I said, “communicate your wants” bc without communication a lot of things can be harmful. Like it just comes down to respect and I have seen a few too many ppl say things like, “lesbians who only date bi women who want long term relationships with women are biphobic since they ignoring the spilt attraction model”

Anonymous

#1 7w

No one I have met who does it has long term friends so I think you are onto something