Anonymous #1 8w

I implied this and then she implied I think she’s ugly (which I don’t) so idk what to say without sounding rude

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Anonymous OP 8w

your friend sounds insecure

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Anonymous #2 8w

Well she’s a good person and I don’t wanna lose our friendship

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Anonymous OP 8w

did she explicitly ask to experiment with you? i’m unclear

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Anonymous #1 8w

Yes

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Anonymous #1 8w

She said she trusts me and wants to

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Anonymous OP 8w

well that was important context lol. if you think it would mess up the friendship you’ve just gotta be honest and tell her that. and you can verbally reassure her about her looks without sleeping with her to prove a point

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Anonymous #1 8w

It’s when she’s deflecting everything but I will keep trying

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Anonymous OP 8w

it really isn’t about trust tho. you can’t control how your body reacts to her and neither can she about you.

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Should I just say fuck it and do it? I won’t lie when I’m saying I feel pressured now to do it which isn’t a nice feeling

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Anonymous OP 8w

it sounds like you really don’t want to, so I wouldn’t

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Anonymous OP 8w

If you don’t want to risk the friendship between you two or if you’re feeling pressured she should understand that as your friend

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Anonymous OP 8w

You both need to consent, not just her. It’s uncool of her to pressure you at all. Honestly if she doesn’t drop it after you just tell her you're uncomfortable with it I'd put some distance between y'all for a bit. It’s pretty normal not to want to have sex with your friends...

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Anonymous #1 8w

what 1 said

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Anonymous #1 8w

lol

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