Everyone is gonna think I’m lying which is wtv but my lesbian bsf is curious about experimenting with men again now is it immoral for me to help her or not? I’m being 100% serious, I don’t wanna mess up our friendship either and look predatory
this has high potential to mess up the friendship. you can be supportive of her experimenting with men without being said man
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Anonymous#115w
I implied this and then she implied I think she’s ugly (which I don’t) so idk what to say without sounding rude
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AnonymousOP15w
your friend sounds insecure
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Anonymous#215w
Well she’s a good person and I don’t wanna lose our friendship
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AnonymousOP15w
did she explicitly ask to experiment with you? i’m unclear
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Anonymous#115w
Yes
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Anonymous#115w
She said she trusts me and wants to
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AnonymousOP15w
well that was important context lol. if you think it would mess up the friendship you’ve just gotta be honest and tell her that. and you can verbally reassure her about her looks without sleeping with her to prove a point
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Anonymous#115w
It’s when she’s deflecting everything but I will keep trying
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AnonymousOP15w
it really isn’t about trust tho. you can’t control how your body reacts to her and neither can she about you.
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Anonymous15w
Should I just say fuck it and do it? I won’t lie when I’m saying I feel pressured now to do it which isn’t a nice feeling
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AnonymousOP15w
it sounds like you really don’t want to, so I wouldn’t
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AnonymousOP15w
If you don’t want to risk the friendship between you two or if you’re feeling pressured she should understand that as your friend
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AnonymousOP15w
You both need to consent, not just her. It’s uncool of her to pressure you at all. Honestly if she doesn’t drop it after you just tell her you're uncomfortable with it I'd put some distance between y'all for a bit. It’s pretty normal not to want to have sex with your friends...