Anonymous #3 3w

I gained 100 lbs when I was suicidal. That weight dosent just go away. Also some of it was from my medication. So they get help, and gain weight from meds and it can’t be lost easily.

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Anonymous #3 3w

There’s also a difference between tackling problems as they come up after already having attraction and forming a bond from it, versus not feeling attraction to begin with

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah that’s the thing, if they’re wanting to lose weight and willing to receive help then I’d stick with them even if it takes a while to lose the weight. I’m a bit chubby and struggling to lose weight from meds so I get it

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Anonymous #4 2w

Fat does not equal unhealthy, and skinny does not mean healthy

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Anonymous OP 2w

No, but being overweight directly causes a plethora of health issues

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Anonymous #4 2w

Skinny people also have a plethora of health issues. And sometimes people can’t lose weight easily after it’s put on.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Health issues such as? And sure there may be some compounding factors but at the end of the day it’s calories in calories out

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Anonymous #4 2w

Literally anyone can have health issues. Also sure “calories in calories out.” My mom eats healthy and counts calories and she’s overweight and has been for years. She walks and works out but she’s still overweight

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Anonymous OP 2w

Then she’s not in a deficit. It’s simple thermodynamics. If she’s overweight and can’t lose it, she’s eating the same amount or more than she’s burning. And yes anyone can have health issues but with skinny people is it often not related to their weight… unlike fat people

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Anonymous #4 2w

So being very skinny does come with health issues

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Anonymous OP 2w

Well duh but we are talking about your typical “skinny person” not the extremes

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