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LGBTQIA+ 7w
It really is crazy that some people genuinely believe lesbians dont exist and that somehow everyone has an innate attraction to mem
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Anonymous 7w

Completely agree, this is definitely an issue within our community and it’s good that you’ve called attention to it… also mem

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Anonymous 7w

I prefer mlems to mems

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah weird aspect of the patriarchy is the assumption that every one of both genders has attraction primarily to men— like the assumption that all bi girls are secretly straight and lesbians can be turned, vs bi men are secretly gay

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Anonymous 7w

yeah same i really never understood why people always react so shocked😭😭

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Anonymous 7w

these sorts of people are extremely dangerous, the beliefs they spread put lives in danger. i've been stalked by a man who believed this, and the fact that people STILL PUSH this, especially women, is nauseating to me

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Anonymous 7w

i had a coworker who swore up and down that everyone was a little bisexual even if they didn’t know it and it pissed me offff. she kept saying i just haven’t found the right man but there was definitely one out there. it’s so weird.

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Anonymous 7w

Exactly i dont like mem at all

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Anonymous 7w

hehe mem

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Anonymous 7w

Genuinely it makes me feel so isolated when people in the community imply that shit, its crazy bcs I’ll pick up on it and feel crazy when no one else does,

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Anonymous 7w

100% agree, that shit is absolutely wild. same with people calling bi girls straight as if there aren’t plenty of us who are primarily attracted to women 🫠 also mem! lol

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah, that pisses me off. Like don’t start projecting your bisexuality onto lesbians. I really don’t even think of men at all. Why is that so hard for them to grasp? It’s pretty simple.

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Anonymous 7w

As someone who is pan, men are usually fucking ugly. I don’t blame them LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Funny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Its so odd cuz for women they either think lesbians are bi and bi women are straight, and that bi men are actually gay and gay men are actually bi, its literally so rooted in patriarchy i cant

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

This is genuinely the reason bisexuals get a bad reputation: dumbasses like this make people think all bi people think that and its so unfair how the few can make people think all of us think this way 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Its literally rape culture

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

no exactly, it’s so disappointing cause it makes actual bisexuals look so bad and she doesn’t even understand that

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 7w

Then if you mention how lesbophobic it is, they scream at you and call you a transphobe. Like wtf does this have to do with trans ppl. I’m so tired of this

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

I’ve had a man not believe me when I told him I’m a lesbian and then avoid me for a month. Then we went out AS FRIENDS for condo de mayo and he thought it was a date…. Then got mad when I was talking to a (gay) guy I met at the party at the bar, and started yelling at me “I took you here and you’re talking to another guy” and the guy had to get in his face for me so I didn’t have to deal with it. WOW. how embarrassing. And I’ve told him multiple times before I AM A FUCKING LESBIAN.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

It is rape culture and its very nauseating and disappointing that some women and a lot of trans people are out there pushing this rhetoric without a care for how it affects our safety and validity, but they claim we are “transphobic” for wanting to have our sexuality respected and validated by society. It’s like it’s never about us, bc we are women who don’t involve men in a sexist society. I’m so fed up with this shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

Mind you the ppl spouting it have the most transmisogynistic ideas abt trans people, at least in my experience 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

Yeah and they also are very sexist and center men too. Yuck, I never understood that. I was raised to center women

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

So crazy that the story got a bunch of likes but the explanation of systematic and socialized discrimination is downvoted into oblivion. That pisses me off. This is a real problem in the light community affecting lesbians and it needs to stop and actually be valued and listened to instead of downvoted for no reason. The comment that mattered more got disliked and the one talking about a traumatic experience was liked. This is a perfect example of lesbians being discriminated against in the lgbt

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