Like i was wearing this before it got cool. That straight man you dated took my shit and decided to be a bad person wearing it. Don’t drag me into this

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Literally just watched a video talking about the “weird kid Olympics” on TikTok and they made the point that we collectively pick up on a term online, and beat it to the ground until it has zero meaning. “Performative” was one of those terms

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As disrespectful as it is, pls take it as a confidence booster, especially if you really were just trying to exist in that moment.

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Can someone actually explain to me what a performative male is??? This is as online as I getttt

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I’m a trans woman and idk how I’d react if I was called that. But probably become dysphoric

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The performative male thing feels so sinister it’s almost like making fun of men who have interests and care abt women

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i asked the yak how to make it more obvious to them that i'm gay cause i don't wanna be seen as a performative straight when im trying to be a performative gay 🙏

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At this point just be sincere, who cares. They can call you “performative” but all they’re doing is participating in a massive trend so who’s really performative

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What’s a performative male? 😭

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Sis you’re a performative male

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