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TRANS BRETHREN: how do you change your name and still feel like yourself??
15 upvotes, 6 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "TRANS BRETHREN: how do you change your name and still feel like yourself??"
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Anonymous 6w

For context, I don’t hate myself, i love who i am, and I’ve liked my name leading up to now, it just no longer fits my gender. I want a more gender affirming name, but I can’t help but feel like changing my name would be like putting on a persona. I don’t feel that way about any other parts of transitioning, just w/ the name

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Anonymous 6w

I just started the easing into the transition. I started with changing my name at work when I started a new job and then I started only going by that name when I introduced myself to new people and then just kind of phased out the old name.

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Anonymous 6w

i changed my name like 8 years ago but admittedly it can take some time to get used to. it’s a little cheesy sometimes but a lot of people pick a name from media they feel tied to or some variation of their birth name.

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Anonymous 6w

the name i picked was the one i already used in french class (ik it’s a little stupid) so i was already a little used to people calling me that and it didn’t feel completely foreign to me

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Anonymous 6w

I tried several names online and ended up picking something really late at night during some conversation I had and it stuck idk lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I think it’s helpful to remember you don’t have to fit into the binary idea of gender for your transition to be valid. If you feel your name is you, there’s absolutely no need to change it. You don’t need a name that “fits the gender” for your gender identity to be valid. You just need to be you. If that doesn’t mean changing your name that’s totally valid and always an option. Just bc changing names is a common part of many trans people’s stories, doesn’t mean it has to be part of yours 💜

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