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i transitioned then detransitioned and chose a different name to use instead of my deadname when i did. is it still my deadname? i have an embroidered towel with it on it and joked that im deadnaming myself and my parents asked if that still counts LOL
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Anonymous 8w

is it now just my birth name i no longer go by

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Anonymous 8w

i say detransitioned but in reality i’m still not my assigned gender at birth. but im not trans either. i’m not cis or trans or nonbinary or anything. the only thing i am is Me and expressing myself the best for Me is in a more feminine way

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Anonymous 8w

I mean yeah? It doesn’t matter what your gender or name is Your name that you go by doesn’t match your birth name Simple as that Sure the term deadname is more commonly used for trans people but anyone who changes their name could theoretically use the term

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Anonymous 8w

Yeah if you want to call it that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

ahh thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

why the downvotes tho this is all a genuine question and my experience is valid. i transitioned for a while and was on testosterone for 3 years. sue me for realizing who i truly am jeez

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