LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I'm really struggling figuring out if I'm lesbian or bi. I had sex w a guy and he was weird and not into him so it made me feel like a lesbian but like I find men attractive? But like I think dating a man would be exhausting (never seriously dated btw)

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LGBTQIA+ 6d

I'm really struggling figuring out if I'm lesbian or bi. I had sex w a guy and he was weird and not into him so it made me feel like a lesbian but like I find men attractive? But like I think dating a man would be exhausting (never seriously dated btw)

Anonymous 6d

sounds like not a lesbian but i’m not the one to make that decision. did you only feel like a lesbian because he was weird or because you were uncomfortable despite his personality. if the idea of dating a man is not ideal because they are tedious and you simply choose not to that is a preference. But if you truly would not entertain the idea in the foreseeable future because you are uncomfortable with the idea then that could hint towards lesbian. are you attracted or are they just attractive?

Anonymous 6d

it sounds to me that he just wasn’t the right guy to do it with. have you felt attraction to any women?

Anonymous

#1 6d

Idk I felt like a lesbian because I just realized the whole thing was uncomfortable. Idk if it was him specifically or if it was bc he was a dude. But like I've also just only found myself attracted to women after this encounter but in the past I used to be more attracted to men. So idk it's confusing to explain sorry

Anonymous

#2 6d

Yeah like I'm only really attracted to women and cartoon men. Haven't found a real man that like im romantically and sexually attracted too

Anonymous

OP 6d

well at the end of the day it’s only a conclusion you can come to, but it seems to me that you’re bi and just have a preference for women. even though they’re fictional, an attraction to men is an attraction to men, yknow. hoping you have better romantic/sexual encounters in the future tho