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LGBTQIA+ 1w
can i get some advice? im not really sure how to identify and dont want to come across as transphobic. i am only attracted to afab bodies, as in the specific parts are important to me. like i would date a transman but not a transwoman
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Anonymous 1w

that’s not being transphobic that’s just having a preference and we ALL are allowed to have preferences! as long as you aren’t fetishizing trans people, and aren’t seeing transmen as women, then i don’t think there’s an issue! having genitalia preference is normal, even trans people have preferences :)

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Anonymous 1w

What is they both had surgeries? Like top and bottom

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Anonymous 1w

Unpopular opinion- sexuality should have more of an emphasis on one’s sex and which sex or sexes they’re attracted to. I know afab enbys who take gender away from words like lesbian and purely focus on their sex and the sex their attracted to in order to communicate their sexuality better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yes this is my predicament. for a long time i identified as a lesbian, but i dont feel like that is accurate to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I feel like it’s hard and depends person to person bc I personally do not care about their sex or what parts they have and am attracted to people on gender portrayal idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i guess i hadn’t thought about that. i think a post op transwoman yes, but a post op transman no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

what about a trans man with bottom growth, or a trans man who is dysphoric about the parts you’re attracted to?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i think i wouldnt

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I get that but as a trans guy I’m not dating a girl who says she’s lesbian idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

i think you have good intentions but as a trans man i would probably stay away from you in terms of dating

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