
That’s well, healthy basis of dating. Just go out often, make time for each other and most importantly just go and see some awesome things, go and do recreational activities like going to the gym, go karting, bowling, tennis, soccer…motivational things bring about closeness, healthy competition, gauging the psyche
“If we date” is the key part of that post. It implies the other person wants to date op, otherwise that would be an entirely irrelevant thing to send. It’s possible they were just joking around in a friendly manner, but thats kinda the point of flirting, plausible deniability. Its why I suck balls at it lmao