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I need advice: I’m starting my new job next week and I’m getting stressed out because there is no gender neutral bathroom. I’m ftm, I’ve been socially transitioned for a while and I am often told that I appear male but I still get called she/her. (1)
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Anonymous 23h

I guess I’m just paranoid about what bathroom to use. I don’t know what to do. I’ve already been called she by one of the people working when I went in for my interview. I guess this is what I get for not being able to be on T yet but I guess I just want advice!

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Anonymous 20h

if they think you're a woman then i'd say use the women's, but if these restrooms are usually empty and you'll be presenting as a man at work, you may want to just use the men's. i think it depends on how you'll present, if you're using masculine name, if you'll be transitioning at this job

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