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Im scared that when i start passing as a male people are going to be uncomfortable with me giving them compliments…
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Anonymous 5w

You just gotta act gay and they’ll be fine. Say something like “yaass you’re eating boots down with that outfit” then snap and turn around. That’s what I started doing and people are less uncomfortable about the man part and more uncomfortable with the gayness now.

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Anonymous 5w

It helps if you stick with compliments that are about someone’s choices, and if you steer away from compliments that can sound “pick up-y”. For example, “I love how you did your makeup, it looks really cool!” or “you have great style!” Also think about compliments other people (especially other men) give you that make you feel good and not creeped on.

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Anonymous 5w

As a fem gay man - you’ll be fine! Just leave the straight men alone lol

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