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Usually idc that I’m likely never gonna get in a relationship cause of the way I identity but then I listen to literally anything by Ricky Montgomery and my heart is suddenly full of yearning. “This December” is specifically doing it for me rn and omg 😭
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Anonymous 6w

Why would how you identify mean you’ll never be in a relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ig I don’t feel ‘valid’? I feel like I’d be an inconvenience with the way I never ‘fit’ into a label. I think I’m genderfluid, but the shift is so gradual that it’s disorienting when I get rlly dysphoric about things that didn’t bother me. But I still feel comfortable enough in my body to present as my agab, so everyone sees me as such when I’m definitely not. Then there’s not wanting to be with anyone cishet while living in the south, but I still feel l’d be a bother with other queer ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I get that. I’m also genderqueer in the south. You are valid and there are people down here that will accept and love you. I hope you can find that

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