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LGBTQIA+ 2w
Been recently exploring the idea that I might be transmasc but I just know my bf hates it. I try to drop hints to ease him into it but ever he’s just a lil weirded or awkward about it. He already knows I’m pansexual and we’ve talked about it a lot tho
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Anonymous 2w

im going to be so real about this, fuck your boyfriends opinion on this. he doesn’t get one. this is for you and you alone and if he doesn’t appreciate you being happy and yourself he doesn’t deserve you

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Anonymous 2w

is he straight? obviously sometimes transition + monosexual partner can work, but if he's already uncomfortable before you even come out and he needed a discussion about you being pan, you might be better off just ending the relationship, i hate to say it :/

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Anonymous 2w

NOBODY is worth sacrificing your own happiness and comfort in your own body. If it doesn’t work out, then you will eventually get over the loss of a relationship. Denying yourself the ability to explore your gender and live fully as yourself you will never get over.

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Anonymous 2w

Live yo truth king get a better man‼️

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah, with you saying he’s invalidated you and you’ve had to “remind” him— this relationship hasn’t been one. You do not owe him shit. You deserve better— you ARE better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I came here to say this. it is your identity, not his, he can't determine whether or not you transition. If he doesn't support you, break the fuck up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

That being said, I came out as nonbinary/transmasc to my lesbian partner (who dated strictly girls at the time). They were initially a little unsure about how they felt, but now we are both nonbinary and transmasc (after some exploration on their part too), and they’re my biggest supporter in my gender exploration. So it will be worth having a straightforward discussion anyway!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Yeah he is, he never said anything bad about me being pan but I’ve had to remind him sometimes coz he invalidates me sometimes. Idk like he didn’t take it seriously that I didn’t only like guys

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