
I’ve been called the f slur so many times in my life. It used to hurt me and make me feel like the scum of the earth but now i’ve grown much more comfortable with my identity and it actually makes me laugh when people call me it. Me and my friends call each other it as a joke. To me it’s not something that can be used to hurt me anymore, it’s just people being mad at me for existing. I use it as a way to make fun of people who have nothing better to do than make fun of me.
This. I’m a cis bisexual and have never had the word used against me, so I don’t personally feel like I’m “reclaiming” anything by saying it, so I don’t use the word. However, a cis bisexual who HAS experienced hate speech with ppl using the word may feel differently and that’s okay.
I’ve had people tell me i’m not allowed to say it or use it because i’m a lesbian or just because i “shouldn’t be saying it” but honestly, I think the less queer people use it, the more power it gives to the bigots who do. Be proud of being a f@g. If you like who you are, be one. Anyone who calls you it is just agreeing with you.