Anonymous #7 6d

Also fun fact when you see two women dating each other that doesn’t automatically mean that they’re lesbians! They could both be bi! You have you’re own biases that need to be examined

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Anonymous #4 6d

I didn’t block you, I just didn’t see it I think mb

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Anonymous #6 6d

Ok, answer the question then

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Anonymous #4 6d

Theres no answer to it cuz they know theyre wrong lol

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Anonymous #4 6d

First of all, why does a black neighborhood always have to be bad? Is that how you view black people? Just bad? Because this isn’t your first example using race. If you don’t like us just say that and move on about ur day 🫶🏾🩷

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Anonymous #6 6d

Lmao Yas queen you strawman that mf to hell and back! We loooove fallacies!!!! 👏👏👏👏

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Anonymous #1 6d

💀 you act like I don’t get what they were trying to say. I’m saying that they used this example before and I already answered. Maybe use another example? idk.

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Anonymous #6 6d

Bbg no you didn’t, unfortunately

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Anonymous #6 6d

LMAOOOO STOP TRYING TO MOVE THOSE DAMN GOALPOSTS GIRL Answer the damn question. Directly please

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Anonymous #6 6d

But yaknow since it’s gone why don’t you give us a refresher on your answer 😜

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Anonymous #4 6d

I did :/

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Anonymous #6 6d

Not directly. Quit playing dumb

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Anonymous #6 6d

Ok you said “first of all” so where’s the second? Explain

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Anonymous #6 6d

Bigots aren’t allowed to use that photo give it back to the cool kids

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Anonymous #1 6d

Why’re you so mad? Do you need a nap? Come back when you’re not so grumpy >:(

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Anonymous #7 6d

Secondly, we’re talking about bi women. Let’s stay on topic!

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Anonymous #6 6d

Nah I got my full 8 hours last night. Only thing you’re full of is shit

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Anonymous #6 6d

Alright I’m going to give you one more chance. This is the fourth time I’ll ask you the question. And if you don’t answer it directly, I am going to assume you’re fine with racial bias and don’t have the spine to admit it

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Anonymous #6 6d

And you’ve officially lost the argument lol bye, you’re the one whining and grumpy because we’re trying to get you to answer an analogous question. Guarantee it that you had a crush on a bi girl that had a boyfriend and you’re bitter forever. Have a nice life lol

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Anonymous #7 6d

💀 I answered already, it’s not my fault yall didn’t get to see it. And I don’t care about winning or losing an argument, this was all because I had my opinion and you guys didn’t like that. want people to respect you guys but you can’t even handle a personal opinion 😩 and the second thing you said is definitely from your own personal experience because that was a lil bit specific boo.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Why should I answer your question AGAIN when you didn’t even answer mine? Doesn’t seem fair to me☺️

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Anonymous #1 6d

💩

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Anonymous #6 6d

It is your fault actually, bc it was your discriminatory ass comment that you deleted or got removed Also, you didn’t answer it, I remember almost every reply. You’re lying and trying to gaslight 4 If you did answer it, then you already know your answer and it’s less effort to just retype it than keep fighting! So answer again!

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Anonymous #6 6d

Anyway I’m now going to say all lesbians are biphobic racists bc I have experienced it first hand and according to you that’s complete valid AND I’m not allowed to be called out on it

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Anonymous #6 6d

I was in an incredibly abusive relationship with a lesbian. When I finally managed to get out, she stalked me. It took a neighbor calling the cops for me to finally be granted a restraining order. My best friend was kidnapped as a child by a lesbian. Another friend was SA’d by a lesbian. Therefore, I hate all lesbians. That’s totally justified because of my personal experiences! And obviously, I don’t hate all lesbians because of this. But this is what you sound like right now.

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Anonymous #6 6d

Didn’t answer my question directly. I’m under no obligation to answer yours

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Like I said you actually have no way of knowing if a wlw couple is bi or a lesbian unless they tell you explicitly :)

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Why is dating men somehow evil? If that were true gay men would be a lot more hated. Could it just be a form of socially acceptable misogyny bc it’s the “woke” way to hate women?

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Anonymous #6 6d

An opinion is like a bootyhole. Everyone's got one

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Anonymous #1 6d

That’s fine LMAO I’m not even lesbian 💀

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Anonymous #4 6d

I did but heyyyy

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Anonymous #16 6d

Yeah and I’m entitled to mines

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Anonymous #6 6d

So what you’re a man who’s pissed a woman left him for another woman? Bc all your other comments were about how bi women mistreated you

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Anonymous #6 6d

But you’re being a pest to show everyone when nobody asked to see it

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Anonymous #6 6d

Bro you literally said you were in your last thread before you got downvoted to hell, you’re such a fucking whiny baby

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Anonymous #7 6d

Never said I was a lesbian 😫

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Anonymous #6 6d

So you’re a bisexual person self hating? Bc why are you complaining about bi women leaving you for men?

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Anonymous #1 6d

No I’m a woman who loves everyone!

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Anonymous #1 6d

I’m not bi either ☺️

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Anonymous #6 6d

So your complaint is women who identify as bi instead of pan? What a fucking loser 😭

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Anonymous #6 6d

So you’re a straight girl invading a queer space for no reason

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Anonymous #7 6d

Not straight either 💔

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Anonymous #1 6d

That wasn’t my complaint at all💀

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Anonymous #6 6d

Then pray tell how bi women are more undecided than you bc you’re pan oh wise one

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Anonymous #6 6d

Well your bootyhole probably stank

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Anonymous #18 6d

To me, it always feels like it’s the people who focused SO HARD on decentering men that they’ve come right back around to centering men. Same with gold star lesbian bs. If you’ve truly decentered men, you would NOT care this much

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Anonymous #1 6d

Never said I was pan either 💔

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Anonymous #16 6d

Oh ok lol

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Anonymous #6 6d

You’re one of the most irritating people on the planet and I’m absolutely certain at this point that your soul goal to being annoying on the internet is to get the attention you so desperately crave in your real life. Clearly the only reason you’d behave like this is because you have no friends or family that want to engage with you anymore because you’re so incredibly off putting. Hope you fix your attitude and your life improves drastically

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Anonymous #7 6d

Betting my life fortune they wanna reply some shit like “I know you are but what am I”

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Anonymous #7 6d

Sorry you feel that way hun 😩 but I hope you put this much energy into something bigger. Like the current state of our world right now.

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Anonymous #6 6d

“Actually I’m allowed to be a bigot on an interpersonal level because the state of the world is bad” ok dumbass lmao

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Anonymous #1 6d

Looks like you’re doubling your life fortune dude good job

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Anonymous #6 6d

I’m praying for you. I don’t know what you’re going through, but I know it must be hard. Things are going to get better— I can’t say it’ll be soon, but it’ll happen eventually.

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Anonymous #7 6d

I’m so excited to have a whole two nickels now!

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Anonymous #10 6d

Keep your religion to yourself please

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Anonymous #1 6d

💀 not what I said at all, but pop your shit queen.

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Anonymous #6 6d

I didn’t share that to try and press my religion on you, but I see how that came across and apologize. I shared it to illustrate that I care enough about your well-being to try and aid if the only way I know how from my current position— because I’ve been where you are. I know how it feels when the past sucks, the present’s a crock of shit, and the future is daunting. You scream into the void because you need to lash out to hear your own voice. I’ve been there and done it too.

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Anonymous #6 6d

The thing is, lashing out doesn’t make the past change, it doesn’t make the pain stop, and it doesn’t make the future any easier. I learned that one the hard way. Not preaching, just trying to say I know what it’s like and I truly hope the pain eases. I hope it gets better. For what it’s worth, I think it will.

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Anonymous #10 6d

I could kiss you right now we need more folks like you

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Anonymous #10 6d

I wasn’t lashing out though. I just gave my opinion and defended myself.

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Anonymous #16 6d

Thank you, that’s very kind but that’s not why I said it, I wasn’t just trying to get cool points. One of the first things they teach you when you start your college program to be a therapist is unconditional positive regard. You have to genuinely believe someone has unconditional worth and truly deserves happiness no matter who they are. I try to use that as a compass in my life.

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Anonymous #6 6d

I understand that and I know how frustrating it can feel when you share something you’re passionate about and you don’t feel heard. Defensiveness after that is natural, Lord knows I’ve been defensive too many times to count. I think universal defensiveness is why this escalated to the point it did. Do we think maybe this is a good point to say “agree to disagree” and move on? It’s okay if we’re not there yet

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Anonymous #6 6d

Also please know my DMs are open even after this convo ends. If you ever need to talk; I’m hereS

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Anonymous #10 6d

And that's totally fair! Even people like #6 still deserves love and has value as much as I detest them

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Anonymous #10 6d

Ive been checked out, people just keep commenting so 😮‍💨 but yeah lets agree to disagree.

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Anonymous #19 6d

💀

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Anonymous #6 6d

🫰

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Anonymous #19 6d

Nobody is saying they’re our oppressors lol. But we are being bullied and invalidated by a portion of them and are allowed to call that out. Bisexuals aren’t oppressing lesbians either 💀

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Anonymous #7 6d

y’all are acting like it LMFAO and yet ur the people that call lesbians biphobic when they give valid criticisms on some bisexuals behavior, focus on the straight people that actually hate us

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Anonymous #19 6d

You are the ones who came to a post about bisexuals for bisexuals to discuss problems we experience when it comes to our personal bad interactions with lesbians, then started screaming about how bisexuals can be a problem too actually. Maybe YOU should be focusing on the straights that actually hate us. You’re the problem sometimes

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Anonymous #19 6d

Calling out targeted individuals for their behaviors is one thing. Generalizing an entire group of people is another. One is valid and important to community growth. The other is bigoted. I don’t think I have to explain which is which

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Anonymous #7 6d

bc these comments reek of lesbophobia but y’all never care abt that do you 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 6d

wow one lesbian said something generalizing so now let’s be lesbophobic in the comments

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I agree.

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Anonymous #19 6d

Bro lesbophobia is when you hate lesbians not when you are having a discussion about a known problem in the sapphic community. You can’t stand the idea that sometimes you’re the one in the wrong. You gonna acknowledge you’re coming into a space for bi women and criticizing us for an experience clearly a lot of us have had?

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Anonymous #19 6d

No one has said anything against lesbians or generalized statements against lesbians as a whole. We’ve made generalized statements about people who exhibit this specific behavior, and shit on one person’s logic about generalized statements, but not one bad thing about lesbians has been said

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Anonymous #19 6d

Lesbian here: these folks havent been lesbophobic. They used think pieces to explain “what if we said this about lesbians” which isnt lesbophobic

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Anonymous #7 6d

Like two things can be true at once. Bisexual ppl can be weird toward lesbians but LESBIANS CAN ALSO BE WEIRD ABOUT BI PEOPLE HOW HARD IS IT TO UNDERSTAND NUANCE IN THIS COMMUNITY 😭

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Anonymous #1 6d

It also smells like purity culture. “If you as a woman even think about having sex with a man you’re compromised and unlovable”

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Anonymous bimbowizard 6d

Oh 100% but god forbid we mention how internalized misogyny could influence our behaviors even within queer culture

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Anonymous #1 6d

FOR REALLLLLL 🫩

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Anonymous pink8ball 6d

I'm a bi man who mostly likes men and they're horrible. Those aren't friends those are some catty hos

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Anonymous #4 5d

How are you going to grow up in a black neighborhood but because of crime never have positive experiences with black people? 💀 Obviously no one is ever entitled to being racist but everyone's entitled to date only the races/genders/sexualities that they want to date.

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Anonymous #7 5d

Bi women mostly date men because 9/10 men are attracted to women and 2/10 women are attracted to women.

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Anonymous #20 5d

My point is absolutely soaring over your head

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Anonymous #7 5d

If I understand your point it’s lesbian biphobia drives bi woman to date men and then lesbians use this confirm the prejudice they already had. It doesn’t make sense to me though because among other things like you said bi women can date each other.

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Anonymous #20 5d

*and do

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Anonymous #20 5d

I agree that biphobia increases cross sex relationships but not like this. I think it’s more that growing up a lot of people aren’t taught how to approach people of the same sex in a romantic way so we just don’t have the tools to do what we want.

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Anonymous #20 5d

Like I also pointed out, you have no way of knowing if a wlw relationship is two lesbian, two bi women, or one of each unless you’re explicitly told. You just confirm your personal bias by making an assumption

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Anonymous #19 5d

We’re not calling lesbians oppressors. We’re criticizing those who project their own prejudices onto others. This isn’t something unique to sexuality as we’ve seen it regarding race, religion and cultural background as well. Stereotyping a whole group because you’ve had a bad experience with one (or even a few) is in no way helpful to the community as a whole.

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Anonymous #27 5d

To me, most of the comments don’t seem to be hating on lesbians. But simply expressing their refusal to date someone who is unwilling to deconstruct their own personal prejudices towards others.

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Anonymous #3 5d

Hey

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Anonymous #7 5d

I fear u are funny af for this

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