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Hung out and went to the beach with my straight guy roommates (who aren’t like weird, toxically masculine, etc) and felt the boyhood I always wished for healing the inner child. Problem is they’re kinda cute and I can’t tell if I’m catching feelings
113 upvotes, 11 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "Hung out and went to the beach with my straight guy roommates (who aren’t like weird, toxically masculine, etc) and felt the boyhood I always wished for healing the inner child. Problem is they’re kinda cute and I can’t tell if I’m catching feelings"
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Anonymous 4w

Also I’m fully out as gay. So this whole thing were straight guys who are aware that I’m gay are being nice to me is a new feeling

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Anonymous 4w

Idk how but the image truly depicts the emotion of the situation

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Anonymous 4w

baby just breathe and imagine he’s ur brother or family member helps a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Been there sweetie that shit definitely can throw you for a loop. It always helped me to find icks like i have this straight guy friend and he’s legit one of the nicest guys ik and he’s unfortunately very hot and very much my type. So I just hyperfixate on his walk and how he breaths. And how he talks in his sleep and that kills any attraction that isn’t superficial

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It also helps if you can find a support group. Like for this person in particular we met during a study abroad and this other girl, I became good friends with also fell for his charm and after the trip we had a sit down together and helped each other through the delulu

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Lmao yeah one of my gay friends did find him hot but simply lost the attraction. So I’ve talked with him a few times about it. The roommate is like muscular and committed to the gym so it’s brutal with how much he’s my type😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

See roommates it can be very easy to find them attractive, but even easier to fall out. My roommate at first I thought he was hot, but then after hearing him gag on his toothbrush and seeing how he left the bathroom a mess every time he took a shower and how somehow more water got on the floor than in the actual shower. The smells, he produced would be ungodly because he was an athlete and protein creatine out. Finding stray pubes at the sink where he didn’t clean them up very well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Lmao yeah that is almost exactly him too! Thankfully it’s also like total boner killer so the reminder that he’s also an equally flawed person totally wakes you up from the romanticized idea of him😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

nah bc i tried that w one of my guy friends and then we ended up making out and it caused really conflicting emotions LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

i guess it’s different if you know they 100% aren’t attracted to your gender tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Righttt!!!😂😂😂 I hate crushes bc I just feel this messy cluster fuck of anxiety and self-hatred. But also update: I don’t have a crush on him anymore. It was just the initial dopamine rush and intuitive doubt that I’m seen as an equal in every aspects to him

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