Tbh body wash wise growing up i would use whatever my mom would buy because we were poor but also because i like smelling pretty but now days i do a mix of different earthy tones i love sandalwood mint rosemary coconut. Neutrogena shower gel is really good because you can use it as body wash, shaving cream douche friendly and smells amazing. I’ve been using a brand called cremo lately and it smells and feels amazing you can get it at cvs it might come across as too masc for you tho but