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I’m an 18yo gay trans guy starting college in a month. I’ve never dated anyone before and I’m worried I won’t find anyone who’ll genuinely be attracted to me. Does anyone have any advice for dealing with this anxiety?
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Anonymous 8w

Don’t force yourself to find someone. If you want a genuine connection, find it naturally. Focus on yourself before you search for a relationship. When you’re confident with who you are, you’ll be amazed at the people who will fall for you. Sincerely, An asexual, biromantic enby who thought they’d never find love after a relationship that only worked for as long as it did because I rejected the real parts of myself. I now have the most wonderful partner and we just celebrated our one year ❤️

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