i’m afab enby(though possibly trans masc-up in the air still lol) and i basically only say it when talking about transmissions with my older car guy friends and that still feels dirty even tho i don’t think most of them even know it’s a slur

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if a binary trans person endearingly calls me the tslur then I’m assuming they’re chill with me endearingly using it back, otherwise I never use it lol

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hear hear

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