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Can someone explain he/him lesbians to me or like trans men identifying as lesbians? I just don’t understand like I thought lesbian was reserved for women who like women I’m not trying to be rude I just don’t get it
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Anonymous 12w

He him lesbians. “Wow I like women and am seen as a woman. I am a lesbian: oh wait. I’m not a woman. Well I rlly love women, and still feel very tied to the label of lesbian. Now I use he him bc that make me feel good. My relationships with women do not feel straight so I say I’m lesbian.”

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Anonymous 12w

I can't see the other comments on here so in case it hasn't been explained yet he/him lesbians are women or nonbinary people who use he/him pronouns, so they don't identify as male those are just the preferred pronouns!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I’m literally a genderfluid lil guy who uses he him and I’m a lesbian bc I always have been and nothing else fits

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Ok this makes sense thank you for sharing your point of view!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

that makes sense!! 💓💓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah ur welcome!! I’m glad it makes sense!

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