Anonymous OP 12w

I suggested therapy

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Anonymous #1 12w

I’ve already been in therapy and talked about this exact issue with a trans therapist, and he literally agreed that I’m going to have trouble meeting someone to date here 😭🙏 I don’t hate myself I hate being lonely

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Anonymous OP 12w

We’re all queer, so… kinda can’t pull that card buddy

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Anonymous #1 12w

Notice where I say “fellow queer” It’s just funny that other queer people would rather make me feel bad for wanting an escape from the crushing loneliness that comes with being disabled and queer in a small town than to actually have a discussion with me and try to help me think more positively

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Anonymous OP 12w

Therapy, it’s not our jobs to make you feel like you can be lovable when I said repeatedly that you deserve someone that’ll love you for you and your response is “ I’ll be a she for him”

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Anonymous #1 12w

Deserving something doesn’t mean I have access to it. Everyone deserves affordable housing and medical care but not everyone can get it in reality. I deserve to feel loved but I can’t find love where I’m at right now.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Separate issue lovebug, notifications off

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Anonymous #1 12w

It’s the same issue babe because you keep telling me over and over that I shouldn’t do something consensual with my own free will that makes it easier for me to find love because I “deserve someone to love me for who I am”. Someone deserving something doesn’t mean they can get it, that’s common sense I fear!

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Anonymous OP 12w

plsssss just learn how to be alone !!! you don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy and fr you do, you probably aren’t ready for a relationship!

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Anonymous OP 12w

Relationships and human rights/ being alive aren’t the same thing unless you live In the sims 4 wicked whims mod

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Anonymous OP 12w

Now I’m really done, go to bed and stop being a troll about wanting a man

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Anonymous #2 12w

I don’t need a relationship to be happy but I only have one solid friendship with someone who doesn’t even live near me, of course I’m going to feel lonely… Conservative area and school, small major, no mode of transportation, only one friend I feel comfortable with, I used to love being single back when I had friend groups but I’m genuinely lonely now

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Anonymous OP 12w

You probably mean well but can we please stop assuming that all trans people are able bodied conventionally attractive neurotypical people who live in cities 🙏 for like 3 years I’ve been in a major depression from moving to this area and feeling hopeless

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Anonymous OP 12w

So you’re lashing out due to loneliness, only you can help with that. Save up your money and move to Colorado

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Anonymous OP 12w

yeah to be blunt and not put it kindly, deal w it. that doesn’t mean you should settle for someone who doesn’t respect your identity and generally just is disrespectful if the queer community

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Anonymous #1 12w

You flip flop a lot girlie Do I deserve love or not? Make up your mind bruh

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Anonymous OP 12w

Never said you didn’t, I said to stop trolling

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Anonymous #1 12w

If anyone’s lashing out it’s you because you can’t stop insulting me for having different boundaries than yours😭 I can’t even move until I’m done with undergrad

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Anonymous #2 12w

This tho 👍

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Anonymous #2 12w

The loneliness is so crushing that I genuinely wish I could die. My only options right now are to get with someone I don’t like or be lonely, I can’t keep being lonely it’s eating away at me

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Anonymous OP 12w

yeah you need to go to therapy.

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Anonymous #1 12w

“Relationships and human rights/being alive aren’t the same thing” after I pointed out that just because someone deserves something doesn’t mean they’re able to get it, which was the original topic

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Anonymous #2 12w

Already did that for quite a long time and explained this issue. We came to the conclusion that I’m probably not going to find anyone until after I move to a better area

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Anonymous OP 12w

Colorado, genuinely move there, but also find a different therapist

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Anonymous OP 12w

yeah, so don’t settle?? just bc you can’t find anyone in your area doesn’t mean you need to settle and go for anyone that’ll take you

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Anonymous OP 12w

No one said that statement

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Anonymous OP 12w

i’m saying go to therapy to deal with the fact that you’re gonna be alone, not to get advice on who to date

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Anonymous #2 12w

I don’t think I will ever be okay with this feeling I’ve had for years but I’ll try again I guess

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Anonymous OP 12w

i’ve also been “lonely” for years and you just learn to accept that you have other ppl in your life that care about you. make internet friends, find a local GSA if you can. don’t just settle for people who probably hate you for who you are???

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Anonymous #3 12w

I’ve been alone for a long

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Anonymous OP 12w

Would you rather have no partner, or someone who does not love you as you, but as a fictional version of yourself they have created in their head who isn’t truly you

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Anonymous #3 12w

I constantly mask even when I’m around my own parents so pretty much everyone who meets me is meeting a fake version of me

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Anonymous OP 12w

Maybe get a social life and not use yikyak as therapy

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Anonymous #1 12w

Holy shit way to ignore me saying I can’t get one this entire time

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Anonymous OP 12w

And so much for being done with me lmao

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Anonymous #2 12w

Everyone hates me for who I am even other lgbt people Can’t make internet friends I’ve been trying for like 5 years Can’t find local communities that will accept me either

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Anonymous OP 12w

alr i’m done trying to convince you that you deserve to be in a relationship where you can actually be yourself. i’m just saying no real healthy relationship is built on you having to pretend to be someone else.

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Anonymous #2 12w

No relationship I’ll ever be in will be 100% healthy I’m sorry you can’t alter my reality to make yourself feel better

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Anonymous OP 12w

you’re gonna realize your self worth some day. i hope it’s soon.

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Anonymous #2 12w

I know my self worth better than people who are trying to shame me for wanting to consent to something on my own terms

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Anonymous OP 12w

Like idk how many times I can say I don’t personally care about being misgendered as much as other people do and I’d be ok with it for someone I really like for people to actually listen to me instead of shaming me for not being trans in the right way

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