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LGBTQIA+ 6w
I need a bit of advice. Bit of a TW for gender struggles. I’ve been struggling with gender stuff for 6 years. I don’t think I’m really trans. I think I’m just confused and obsessed. I don’t think I have any dysphoria. Been stuck.how do I see if im trans?
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Anonymous 6w

Why don’t you think you’re “really trans”

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Anonymous 6w

i had a very similar struggle!! what helped me was realizing that cisgender people do nottt experience this shit for that amount of time 💀 ur gender is *likely* queer in some way. i never really stuck with a label, genderqueer is good enough for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Cause I don’t experience dysphoria like… at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

But I need a label. For me. It dosent help that certain family members say that I am confused and they aren’t in denial.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

So why do you think you’re trans?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

thats chill i was just offering an option to see if it would help at all. ig my advice then would be to just take your time, you have your whole life to know yourself. personally, i would talk to those family members or if that wont help then contact them less bc ur mental health comes first. u got this i hope things get better!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

hmm another piece of advice, maybe try presenting whatever ur opposite gender is, u could try androgynous too. doesnt have to be in public just in your home. if presenting that way makes you feel euphoric, and much more yourself, then i would say its a good indicator that ur trans or genderqueer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Cause sometimes I want tits. Sometimes I wanna wear fem clothes. Sometimes I wanna be she/her. I feel more comfy with certain things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I want to do androgynous. But my fam says to pick one or the other. (I’m 21 lol)

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