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Y’all are so against men taking something exclusively for women (or non men) and making it about themselves until a trans man wants to become a lesbian. Then it’s totally cool for a man to invade a woman’s space. 🙌🏽
You cannot be a vegan and eat meat. Iykyk.
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Anonymous 12w

Do you not have anything better to worry about

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Anonymous 12w

Sister forgot how transgender men and transmasculine folk are historically tied to Sapphic women throughout the 20th century 😔 Sister please tell me you have not forgotten that as all queer communities unite we are stronger against hyper-conservative governments

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Anonymous 12w

the ones that are pushing so hard for trans MEN to be able to be lesbians conveniently forget that they’re basically saying men are allowed to be in women’s and wlw spaces and it’s totally valid. like bffr, i respect my wlw friends enough to know that i, as a man, cannot be a lesbian even though i’m immersed in the culture

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Trans men trying to invade women’s spaces is a totally valid thing to worry about, as a trans man who used to be a lesbian, I think it’s bs. There’s a difference between a transmasc lesbian and a trans man lesbian. You CAN be a transmasc lesbian, you can NOT be a trans man lesbian, because lesbian means non-man loving non-man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Lesbians can choose not to date trans men you know that right Like just because a trans guy still feels comfortable calling himself lesbian for whatever personal reasons he might have doesn’t mean other lesbians are being forced to date him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

When you find out that people can choose who to date and aren’t forced to be attracted to everyone 🤯🤯

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

That’s not what the conversation was about though.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

This is like people who throw a fit over transtrenders and claim they’re taking up real trans peoples spaces

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Again, not what the conversation was about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Then what’s it about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Go up and read it. It’s still there.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Hmm I see some complaining about people invading spaces, which is what I literally just said

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Personal identity =\= forced group acceptance. Other lesbians are perfectly allowed to not wanting to date a trans man lesbian, or a trans woman lesbian. What we’re talking about is how people choose to define themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Saying ‘trans men can be lesbians’ is like saying ‘cis men can be lesbians, as long as that’s how they identify.’ Then following it up with, ‘Well, lesbians don’t have to date them, it’s just about identity.’ You’d never say that about cis men, because it clearly violates what the word means. So why is it okay to say that about trans men, who are also men? It’s only seen as acceptable because people like you still fundamentally see trans men as women

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

I think cis men can identify as lesbians, I’m simply wary of those who identify that way bc of cis men’s history of invading queer spaces for insidious reasons. Again, policing other people’s identities doesn’t end with just queer people, anyone can use any label and it’s weird if you tell them they can’t think of themselves that way

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