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I was not socialized male. I was made fun of for my feminity. Treated as an outcast by male classmates and punished for my femininity by my family. Saying trans women are male socialized is bio essentialism and saying you don’t view them as women.
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Anonymous 2w

no because i literally had people throwing rocks at me for not being “man enough”. i had to keep consistently denying parts of myself and stuff i was wanting to do out of fear of punished

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Anonymous 2w

thats ur experience ik a trans woman with a completely different experience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No bc ur right. Is it wrong to say all trans women are socialized male? Absolutely. But some very much so absorbed the gendered messaging, as a trans person, albeit a trans *guy*, I absorbed female gendered messaging AND male gendered messaging.

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