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I’m in a relationship w a man but I genuinely think about how I want a pretty alt girlfriend all the time tbh - I don’t have a label for my sexuality though bc I never had good sex w either gender.
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Anonymous 1w

possibly biromantic asexual?

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Anonymous 1w

Your sexuality isn’t as important for good sex as good communication and an empathetic partner is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s what I think too. I like to be cared for and appreciated but it does not feel like anyone is. It feels as if I’m just there and it wouldn’t matter who it is in their head, it’s just them being happy to get something. I was to be loved, not lusted. I want that best friend vibe. Matching hobbies, lots of dates and just enjoying each others company. Without that sex feels like nothing. Just something to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Possibly tbh sounds about right.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I 100% understand, I used to not care much about it but after truly falling in love with someone I don’t ever want to have sex without it, definitely harder to find that but 100% worth it! I hope you come across it soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s what I believe would happen too. I have the desire to have sex but the issue is sex never feels good when I do…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you so much! I hope so too!

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