Anonymous #1 4w

You can remove the deodorant in a number of ways (such as wiping it off) but a shower is also fine. Deodorant is a safety barrier to this kind of play so it’s essential to either remove it or not apply it in the first place (if you’re staying in and ONLY then, exposing nonconsenting strangers to BO isn’t okay) before putting it in your mouth or ingesting it

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Anonymous OP 4w

Okay I was fully joking but I really think it’s cool and appreciate your amount of knowledge on this subject, it’s really cool to hear about

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Anonymous #1 4w

sex educators are awesome. I went to a couple trans sex seminars with a ex-bf and they were wonderful learning experiences

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Anonymous #2 4w

I need to find out where places like that are around me. I have so many questions

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Anonymous #1 4w

I’ve been to less than I’ve hoped for so far, but it’s more likely than you think that *someone* that you know is in the know :) college students tend to make up a good amount of the traffic of education seminars/workshops. And yik yak is a college app

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Anonymous #1 4w

local sex stores are usually a good place to look for flyers or ads

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Anonymous #2 4w

I’m asexual so I haven’t been into many sex stores, but I’ll start looking around :3

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Anonymous #3 4w

no one want you

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Anonymous #7 4w

Unfortunately not, but I’ve used formal resources to educate myself on topics specific to kinks and I’ve been part of the community for a long, long time. I’m also trans, and I know of several extremely intelligent and scientific trans writers who talk about sex/kink a lot and talk about research (I can recommend one if you’d like!) For actual school though, I’m getting a degree in finance of all things lol

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Anonymous #6 4w

I’m just a very, very kinky woman. I’ve been in the community for a long time. People who matter don’t judge me for it.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Yeah, I feel like with the amount of knowledge and experience I have I almost feel obligated to share it with people, so that everyone can have a better (and safer!) time. Sex is important to many people (I saw you were ace) and people enjoy it in all different kinds of ways. I’m educated on kink in general, specializing in bodily fluids and how to safely engage with it. I feel real strongly that I should call someone out (politely) if they talk about doing something that’s unsafe/not informed

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Anonymous OP 3w

what are your recs?

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Anonymous #8 3w

My recs? Anyone is welcome to send me a DM. I can recommend Doc Inpossible on substack though, her Stained Glass Woman article “beneath the surface” is really good for me as a trans person

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’d love to hear about safe engagement with bodily fluids as you said you specialise in it!

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Anonymous #1 3w

Okay, which one? All tips have to be tailored to each one. I will say though I do not have experience with 🩸 and so I’ll just link outside resources if the questions is about that. I’d say the biggest tip is just a matter of the partners being healthy and getting tested

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Anonymous OP 3w

Okay maybe strange but I’m in fandom spaces where it seems like everyone has a piss kink 😭 how safe is watersports actually? If you know that lol

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Anonymous #1 3w

Very safe. Idk if you’re interested in it or not but I make sure everyone is REALLY well hydrated, arguably over-hydrated for doing watersports. Make sure you keep it out of your eyes (some people use swimming goggles!) and that there’s no cuts on your body that could get wet from it, and you’re good to go. People tend to enjoy watersports because of how intimate and primal it is, but it can be for other reasons (domination, humiliating)

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Anonymous OP 3w

I never thought of swimming goggles!! People are so smart :3

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