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LGBTQIA+ 3w
*Rant/Question. Not horny* I wanna bottom for other ppl. I love being able to do it on my own but I never feel anything w other ppl and since masterbation was what I knew first growing up, it puts me in a top/side position that I don’t want 2 be in.
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Anonymous 3w

Anyone else experience this?

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Anonymous 3w

When you bottom with other people, is there any lead up (massaging, fingering, eating) or is it straight in. When people rush it’s unpleasant; just painful. Also, make sure not to use to much lube - only as much as necessary get in. Loss friction = loss most pleasure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

There’s been times where I’ve had both of those experiences. And it’s still the same every time thus far

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Have your experiences been hook ups or dates? How comfortable with partners did you feel?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It was all hookups. I often didn’t feel fully comfortable honestly. There’s been times where I thought I was comfortable, but still didn’t feel anything. Maybe it’s that comfort aspect. I’m not sure though 🤔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I didn’t enjoy anal until I was dating a partner mult months. Part of it is comfort. Part of it is having someone who knows how to navigate you and who prioritizes your enjoyment

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