LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | I don’t get why it’s a “genital preference” when it’s really a genital incompatibility. A preference is me being more attracted to shorter men but still maybe liking a taller man. An incompatibility is me not dating long-distance but still liking them.

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LGBTQIA+ 6w

I don’t get why it’s a “genital preference” when it’s really a genital incompatibility. A preference is me being more attracted to shorter men but still maybe liking a taller man. An incompatibility is me not dating long-distance but still liking them.

Anonymous 6w

and when I find out someone has a certain pair, I’m not open to dating them but it’s not like my attraction suddenly turns off. a lot of people phrase it like they suddenly lose all feelings, but I don’t get that? unless you’ve seen them naked, it’s an intangible thing. I still like someone after finding out even if I know we’re not compatible.

Anonymous 6w

I completely agree with this terminology and I will be utilizing it when it comes up in convos

Anonymous 6w

I guess for some people it IS a preference (me) and for others it’s incompatibility, I didn’t realize but yeah that’s a meaningful difference.

Anonymous

OP 6w

also, no, this is not a space to discourse about how “genital preferences are/aren’t valid.” It just seems like the phrasing is misleading, and I’ve never seen discussion on it