lowkey poke him about it. if you’re worried about them conspiring, beat em to the punch:) but not in a big “i have a crush on you” way. just be like “you’re cool! wanna go find bugs together?” or like any date. it feels like a lot less pressure on the receiving end. “a date” versus “a locked chest full of powerful emotions i feel towards you that i’ve now opened and poured out”. basically just gently try and build your 1 on 1 relationship with him. if you pique his interest, you’ll hang out more

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welcome to the universal sapphic experience 😔

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