People like nev use the “you can hide your queerness”as some kind of “gotcha!” Even though 1) not everyone can and 2) having to hide your queerness is a form of oppression in itself so I don’t really understand their point

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Idk im intersex transmasc and even pretransition i was kicked out of womens spaces and hatecrimed bc no one believed i was a girl. Like i fucking tried no one bought it

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Like trans people are like "I literally had no choice or I would die" the same way someone held hostage and doing crimes at gunpont would say it. The other person arguing is viewing choice like an active decision to do something, which in the hostage scenario is choosing to comply instead of risking death. Neither viewpoint is really wrong but the argument isn't gonna go anywhere because you're starting from totally different baselines

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