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stars2005

I know this random but my nigga wants to transition and I confused about how I feel about it I love him but I just feel lost about the hole thing
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Anonymous 4w

You should support your friend.. you may not understand it, but you know you care about him.. and that’s what matters, love and support…even when we don’t fully understand

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Anonymous 4w

This gonna sound rude I’m sry but idk how else to say it but I feel like the best way to deal with feelings like that is kind of to realize that it doesn’t matter how you feel? if that makes sense. like I’m a full dick devil now but I got conservative parents so back in middle school when I still had a little bit of that sauce in me one of my friends transitioned and at least for me that’s how I rationalized it in my mind that like “wait why does this matter to me” and I just kept treating her

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Anonymous 4w

lost? how so?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yea I was with him today when he had his first appointment to start transitioning it made happy to see him so excited

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Like idk how I feel about like happy sad or anything I am really scared I won’t have the same feelings for him after idk why

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

how I used to just with different pronouns and it worked out. Maybe it was the latent bisexuality that helped it not really affect how I felt too much but like that’s how i worked it out for my stupid ass 14 yr old mind at least not sure if it’ll apply for u. Congrats for ur friend!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Thanks I understand I really love him so I am excited to see him become who he wants to be

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Anonymous replying to -> stars2005 4w

hell yeah

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