Debatable. I will agree that acceptance brought by assimilation is usually weaker than unconditional acceptance, though it’s also true the two aren’t mutually exclusive. You can also have an end goal and have multiple steps to reach that goal. You don’t have to only accept a solution that instantly jumps you to the end goal. The first step could at least be us becoming a group with enough influence that businesses are willing to cater to us.
i guess?? i just feel like we have reached that point, like corporate pride has previously been a really big thing, and that evidently didn’t do shit. people that are okay w queer people when they “don’t shove it in their face” are not actually okay with queer people and i think instead of focusing on becoming palatable to conservatives we should instead focus energy into building community with people that will accept us as we are, and then build that community through personal connections