
honestly i feel like this kind of post pushes the narrative that 1) men can't be feminine without it being something to look down on and 2) the whole thing where people treat trans men specifically as betraying the queer community and all the force-fem 'jokes' on trans men, telling trans men they'd be better as girls, trying to convince trans men they'd arent really trans if they like feminine things
obviously this post isn't saying this, i just feel like it's connected to the broader anti (trans/) masculinity culture in queer spaces. i don't think OP or OOP thinks these things, i just feel like it pushes a subconscious rhetoric that is harmful to men in general and men in the trans/queer community more specifically